As many of you may have noticed (or maybe not), I’d taken a
bit of a hiatus from the doll collecting world. Five months to be exact. During
that time I’ve had many things happen. Some great. Some good. And, some that
have seriously sucked. But, all in all, I feel like I’m in a better place now
and I’ve grown from all of these experiences and feel like a bit stronger now
than I was just a few months before.
I’m sad to say that I had lost the ability to see the beauty
in my beloved dolls. I would walk into my doll room (which once was my safe
haven) and marvel at the beautiful, miniature men and women that inhabited my
fantasy fashion world. I had ordered and paid for a mountain of dolls that I
were still trapped in their miniature coffins (aka boxes…I hate them…boo and
hiss here box collectors) but I just could not muster the “happy place” that I
needed to be in to invite my new vinyl friends into my fold.
Well friends, this July 4th holiday….THAT FEELING
CAME BACK! It was like Christmas in July. I started opening my Breakfast At
Tiffany’s dolls (amazing), I finally got to get to know Chip on a more intimate
level (is it me or does he look like Magic Mike’s Channing Tatum?), my amazing Dynamite Girls (ginger haired Auden
is just delish) and started incorporating them in to my vignettes/displays (I
tend to try to tell a “color or trend story” when it comes to my displays).
Needless to say, I needed it. After attending what seemed like EVERY PRIDE
celebration in the state of FLORIDA (sometimes it would even take me a second
to remember what city I was actually waking up in) and getting dangerously
close to alcohol poisoning on more than one occasion this summer (apparently
the first step is admitting you have a problem….kidding!) I was due for some
downtime. And guess who were waiting for me….my stunningly gorgeous, silently
patient little works of art.
There was Poppy and Darla smiling back with open arms. My FR
girls (gave me a bit of attitude at first) but then warmed up after a few of
them switched outfits. My Monograms and FR16s are still waiting…afterall, you
don’t want to overdo it on your first day back.
Finally, I have a couple of public “thank you’s” that I
would like make.
1-
To Percy Newsum and the rest of the IT staff
that donated RuPaul Doll’s for Sawmill Charities weekend event featuring RuPaul
herself. The Queen of all Media was on her way back from Australia Pride and
she was doing her ONE AND ONLY U.S. concert appearance for us at Sawmill. The
money that was made from the sales and auction of the signed Ru-dolls enable a
group home for gay homeless kids to have many much needed repairs made. I was
very proud to be a part of the doll community that day. Some say that
collecting is frivolous…but on the day that I received the boxes from IT for
the event I felt so grateful for the generosity of the Newsum family. They made
a massive difference in the lives of some very well-deserving kids. And, who
know I think that day we may have converted to civilians into our army of doll
collectors!
2-
Marl Davidson deserves a special mention. First
of all, everyone should have a MOM like her. I’m not kidding. She loves all her
children and friends without bounds or limits. But, best of all she will give
you a swift kick in the butt when you need one. Thanks for your patience, your
wise advice and your ever present shoulder to cry on.
3-
David Buttry and Ken Gibert are special to me.
And not in a short bus kind of way….lol! I miss them terribly (along with the
rest of our doll club family) since I moved an hour and a half away from
Orlando to Sarasota, I realized how much I looked forward to my monthly escape
over to their home for “playdates”. In the last couple of months, I’ve lost
friends to illness (like my friend Brooke of Marlbe.com says,”CANCER IS AN
ASSHOLE!”)…so, since then I’ve made the conscious decision to let people know
just how much I care for them. David and Ken….I LOVE YOU!
4-
Alain Tremblay…..thank you for planning the 2012
Convention in Orlando! I travel so much for a living that just being able to be
at home for this “doll-cation” is really something that I’m looking forward to.
Plus…I can’t wait for all the surprises! IT team never disappoints! PLUS…I WILL
BE ABLE TO PLAY HOST TO ALL MY FRIENDS FROM AROUND THE WORLD TO MY CRAZY WORLD!
Get ready kids….and get your dollars ready….Yvonne you know what I mean….lol.
5-
Peter Aguas, my one and only true love. Thank
you for putting up with my mulitiple bi-polar personalities and always urging
to me go play with my dolls. You should have gone into therapy as a career. I
could have been your thesis.
Well, the convention is right around the corner and I and I
can’t wait to see all my friends. The countdown is officially ticking in my
head!
Well….I will get back to taking pics soon….baby steps!
See you all soon!
Xoxo,
Frank
Awwww.. I'm so happy when I see you enjoying your collection... You are the best boyfriend anyone could ever ask for! I'm the lucky one!
ReplyDeletei love you.....for more reasons then you will ever know ;-)
ReplyDeleteReally great to see you posting again. Missed seeing your blogs. Hope you and Peter are doing well, and can't wait to see you in September. BTW uber Jealous that you got RuPaul out at the Sawmill... lol Muah
ReplyDeletePS. amazing of you and IT to combine efforts to raise all that money for the group home. There are so many LGBTQ kids that have no where to go and it's so good to hear that you and everyone else were able to fix up the group home.